What if New Year was just another day ?

Hi, I’m Grace — Pilates Instructor, Stretch Therapist, and Personal Trainer based in the South Bay.

As we wrap up 2025 and move gently into 2026, I’ve been reflecting on how much pressure can come with this transition. Rather than seeing the New Year as something that needs to be fixed, reset, or reinvented, I’ve been thinking about what it might look like to simply continue forward with a little more intention, care, and self-trust.

This reflection led me to a simple question:

What would I want to hear right now, at this point in my life?

The answer, for me, was a reframe — a shift away from the familiar New Year messaging of resets, resolutions, and reinvention. Instead, it was an acknowledgement that it’s okay not to race into the New Year filled with focus or clear direction.


Small acts of support and kindness

Life is not linear, and falling into the trap of where we should be based on the calendar can be a difficult road to navigate. While January can offer a helpful moment to reset or refocus, it’s also important to remember this:

This is your unique experience of life.

And the reality is, right now, setting big gym goals or chasing dramatic change might not be your priority — and that doesn’t mean you’re behind, unmotivated, or doing something wrong.

What I’d like to highlight with this week’s post is very simple:

Your self-care can remain a priority.

That doesn’t have to mean grand gestures or perfect routines.

It can live in small, daily acts of support and kindness — moments where you choose to listen to your body rather than push it.


Stretch Therapy to Support finding moments of ease

Following this line of thinking, I want to gently shine a light on stretching — and for my local South Bay community, Stretch Therapy specifically.

Stretch Therapy isn’t about fixing or forcing change.

It’s a practice rooted in listening and support.
Through guided, supported stretching, your body is given the time and space it needs to take deeper breaths, release held tension, and find moments of ease — often in places that have been asking for attention for some time.

January and the New Year can often feel like a big event. Almost performative. A starting line for a race — full of intention, hope, and pressure to “go after it.”

And while I deeply value intention and goal-setting (both of which I weave into my own life), what I want to leave you with is this:

If this isn’t your season for big goals, clarity, or reinvention, that is okay.

You don’t need perfection.
You don’t need urgency.

The calendar does not get to dictate your pace or direction.

You don’t need to rush or perform — you just need to move in a way that feels right for you, right now.


My gift to you …

If you’re local to Manhattan Beach and the South Bay and curious about Stretch Therapy,

I am offering a gentle introductory session as we move into the New Year.

A first Stretch Therapy session is available at $110 (normally $135)

Not as a reset or resolution, but as an opportunity to slow down, listen, and give your body the support it may be asking for.

If you have questions or would like to explore whether this feels right for you, I’d love to hear from you.

Introductory session

Health and Happiness,
Grace

Grace Coler

Portsmouth Personal Trainer & Pilates Coach.
Owner @ Move with Grace - Your path to Strength & Wellbeing.

https://www.movewithgrace.uk
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